In our journey of life, Ceneca's famous saying "the person who is willing, the fate leads; the unwilling person dragged away" and hit the hearts, revealing our attitudes towards destiny. The willing people went down, and as the direction led by fate, the unwilling person struggled, and was passively dragged forward by fate. However, this description seems to ignore another possibility: someone chooses to accompany destiny. This attitude is neither fulfilling its destiny nor unsteady to resist, but to find a self -initiative under the constraints of acknowledging destiny and move forward with destiny. This is a balanced attitude, which not only includes the acceptance of reality, but also opens a space for personal will between adversity and smoothness. This way of getting along with fate is perhaps the attitude we should have during our lives.

Destiny is a complicated existence. The ancients often said that "things are in people, success is in heaven", while modern people regard more destiny as the combination of environment, opportunities, and their own choices. In life, the size of the opportunity, the advantages and disadvantages of the environment, the personality, and talent of people are part of destiny, and they together affect our life trajectory. This destiny is not an absolute theory of fate. Fate theory believes that everything of human beings is destined, and personal efforts are only futile, and this kind of fate theory makes people give up subjective motivation. The concept of modern destiny acknowledges the major influence of external factors in life, and also emphasizes the importance of personal growth and independent choices. This means that even if destiny is an uncontrollable external forces, people can still find their own path under the arrangement of destiny through hard work, wisdom and courage.

We always face all kinds of restrictions in our lives, and some of the restrictions on the external environment may not be controlled by us. At this time, it is a kind of wisdom to admit that these unchanged fate factor. People cannot choose the environment of birth, and cannot choose innate physical conditions. These external factors have shaped us, but we cannot feel inferior or frustrated about this. "Sorrow". The limit of destiny is not terrible. What we are afraid of is that we refuse to admit it, cannot accept it, and over -obsessed with those things that we cannot change. The reality of receiving fate is not only a psychological self -consistent, but also a strategy of life. By accepting the facts, we can avoid wasting energy in unnecessary internal consumption. Instead, we can focus on those parts that can be controlled, so as to live more peacefully and freely.

At the same time, we will also face many adversity in life, such as losing work, uncomfortable life, and even sudden diseases, which are the tests brought by destiny. If you escape blindly, or resentment of reality, it will make people deepen. However, in the face of setbacks, we can choose to take the initiative to accept the facts that cannot be avoided in life. Just like the storm in life, we can't avoid it, but we can hold up an umbrella and quietly cross the wind and rain. Adversity is not only negative. Many people have gained huge growth after accepting and facing adversity. Therefore, being able to accept the change of destiny in life is a calm and calm attitude, not negative and yielding.

But acceptance does not mean negative waiting. The attitude that is accompanied by destiny also contains a subjective and dynamic play, which is reflected in the active pursuit of life goals. We can choose our own direction, we can set goals for ourselves and achieve them through hard work. As Marx said: "People create the environment, the environment is also creating people." While accepting the fate arrangement, actively act and realize our ideals. This method can help us avoid losing due to excessive attention to destiny. self. We should create our own way. Although this road is not necessarily straight and full of sunlight, each step will set up a solid foundation for the future.

Many people grow up into a better person in adversity. They do not blindly obey their destiny, but actively create their own path in the changing environment of life. For example, an unemployed person may be painful because of losing his original occupation, but if he can face this reality, he does not complain about the sky, but choose to re -study and improve his skills. In the end It is more suitable for your own career. Such examples are not uncommon. Many successful people have discovered their potential in adversity and eventually moved towards a wider future. Therefore, accompanied by destiny is not only to accept the arrangement of fate, but also to achieve a turning point in life under his own efforts.

This attitude is not only reflected in personal life, but also to cope with changes in various social environment. Modern life is full of uncertainty. Sometimes we don't know what will happen next, but it is this uncertainty that makes life colorful. It is an active attitude towards life to accept the unpredictability of destiny and find opportunities and breakthroughs in this unpredictability. Just as the modern psychology advocates the "goodness of the trend", that is, find a balance in life, neither depends on fate, nor pursue control of everything. Through this balance, we can cope with various challenges more flexibly in our lives, neither of the fate, nor exhausted because of the pursuit of absolute autonomy.

"The person who is willing, the fate is led; the person who is unwilling, the fate is dragged away" Although the two extremes of life reveal, we need to find the middle path. Life is not black or white, it has countless gray areas. It is the manifestation of human wisdom to be able to deal with it flexibly in life and find a harmonious way to live with fate. Walking with destiny is to find a self -consistent balance in life, not paranoid the possibility of fate, nor to fall into the blindness of fate.

In the face of fate, we can conform to or create. Informing fate is not the same as the adversity, but the rational analysis and acceptance of the environment. Creating its own path is an important way to achieve self -growth and value. The real wisdom is to find a balance between the two. The stress and difficulties in life are the tests given by fate. We can choose to conform to them, grow in the process of endurance, and at the same time exert their initiative at the right time and find a turnaround. Such a flexible attitude makes us not lose our direction because of the twists and turns of fate, nor will we fall into anxiety because we blindly pursue control of life.

All in all, life lies in dialogue with destiny, not yielding or resistance. Walking with destiny, we must not only accept the peaceful heart of reality, but also have the courage and wisdom of changing the status quo. Destiny brings uncertainty and tests, but also provides us with the opportunity to grow and change. Facing the ups and downs of life with a balanced mentality, not only accepting the arrangement of fate, but also to play subjective initiative, and find your own position between Shunshin. In this way, we will go more stable and more fulfilling under the leadership of fate.

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