Last time I mentioned my ex-girlfriend, Pan Yanhua from Hepu, Guangxi, who is also a real-name user on this writing platform. I believe everyone can guess that she started using it because of my introduction. Why did I introduce her? What is the story behind it?

I remember when I first met Pan Yanhua, I learned a bit about her family background and even asked about her job situation, to which she replied that she was unemployed. At that time, I assumed she was in a state of joblessness. Later, I found out that her father currently works as a laborer in a factory, and her mother runs a small shop and is a second landlord. Every morning, she helps her mother open the shop and waits for regular customers to come in, buy peanuts or sunflower seeds, and order some beer. Sometimes, she rides an electric bicycle to help her mother deliver goods. Once her mother finishes her chores at home, she returns to take care of the children.

When I saw the word "children," I couldn't help but think back to when I first went to Danzao, Foshan, to accompany her. She had told me about her failed marriage, and naturally, I was concerned about whether there were any children from that relationship. I asked her about it, but since she chose to avoid the question, I took it as a default answer of no. I didn't seek to blame her for the reason behind the divorce, but I hoped to understand whether it was an issue with her or her ex-husband through our interactions.

She often complained to me that her parents disliked her for being unemployed and that she worked hard and focused on sharing household chores, yet she was often criticized for being clumsy. She also mentioned that her education level was only vocational, which made it difficult for her to find a better job. She originally planned to work as a delivery rider for Meituan, but her mother was worried about traffic accidents. Additionally, the children at home needed to be taken care of in turns with her mother, so I asked about the relationship between the children and her family.

Regarding the children in her family, she often referred to them as "niece." I also heard that her father had a failed marriage, so Pan Yanhua has two older half-brothers. I had never heard of an older sister. I continued to assume that a very close cousin was taking care of the children because she was too busy with work, and her brother-in-law's family favored boys over girls, which led to her sister's marriage being essentially non-existent.

Since she was so good at making up stories, I suddenly thought of introducing her to Qiqi Writing to participate in creation and publish her own works, which could earn her royalties every month. I shared a recorded and edited tutorial video on how to use the platform, which I had made during my time at Qiqi Writing, with her. The video included the format for using the platform and detailed instructions on how to publish articles step by step. As a result, she quickly registered an account named "Pan Yu" but her published works were incoherent, and the format was a mess.

So, I recorded my phone screen and explained to her how to use it. Little did I know that her second published piece was even worse, so it was understandable that she only had a vocational education. To help her understand how to use Qiqi Writing clearly, I recommended the WeChat account of my former employer and the founder of Qiqi Writing, Guo Shengzhirong. After transferring it to her, they quickly became friends. When I saw that her third piece was still poorly done, I asked if she had consulted Guo Sheng. Her answer was that Guo rarely responded to her inquiries.

In desperation, it seemed necessary for me to treat her better since I had developed feelings for her. I asked for her phone number to help her register a new account named "Pan Yu (Yanhua)." I also asked her to pay attention to whether she received a verification code text message on her phone. After she received it and sent it to me, I filled it in for the next step and asked for her favorite male artist's birthday to set it as the login password. I then asked her to send me the content she wanted to write each day, and I gradually helped her enrich it into a somewhat decent article. I can say I was willing to be a ghostwriter for Pan Yanhua, and it also allowed me to practice writing in various ways, further improving my skills.

After our breakup, I informed Pan Yanhua of the password for the "Pan Yu (Yanhua)" account via WeChat and then deleted the content from my notes. Later, as mentioned in the previous article, to rid myself of Pan's entanglement, I blocked her on WeChat. For specific details, please refer to the previous article.

What I find both sad and funny is that she created a fake account to ask Guo Shengzhirong for my WeChat ID. It seems that she should have known better, but when she asked how to use Qiqi Writing, it was like throwing a stone into the water with no response. If it were really me, Guo would have gained a lot from it. When the time came to receive the royalties, Pan was shouting on various social media platforms to return the payment. Why haven't I received any tips until now? The current situation of mutual harm is entirely caused by Pan, and the compensation for my lost youth should be far more than this, right? Furthermore, such actions are truly "knowing you are in trouble but still trying to get back to me," merely to add me back on WeChat.