The internet is ablaze with papers about the Cheesecake Factory date scandal. Now, here’s another paper, in which I provide some considerations about why a man might take you to the Cheesecake Factory.
First, let’s say this: I don’t know why you’re getting in a car with these men on a first date, but you don’t know where you’re going! Are you trying to get kidnapped!?!? I would never get in a car with a man on a first date, and I wouldn’t know where the first date is going before I arrive. I always arrive separately and let someone know where I am and who I’m with, just in case.
Here’s a reason to get a date at the Cheesecake Factory.
1. You are attracting at your level, but wanting more
That cash he gave you is braggin' on the front
If you’re gonna brag, make sure it’s your money you’re flaunting
You’re not relying on anyone else to give you what you want - Destiny's Child, Independent Women (Part 1)
Many women who complain about the Cheesecake Factory (or similar restaurants) need to listen to Independent Women (Parts 1 and 2). Bills, bills, bills; Survivor; U upgrade. Many of you are looking for a man to give you social influence and satisfaction. Because a random man took you to a nice restaurant, you want to post on social media, brag to your friends, and feel special.
If you need a five-star meal, provide it for yourself! If you can’t afford it, stop expecting someone else to compensate for what you can’t do. Women married into lifestyles in the 50s and 60s when they weren’t given the same professional opportunities as men. This is the 21st century! Secure your bag and earn your lifestyle, and you will never have to look for someone to give it to you... and they can never take it away.
Also, you are seeking validation of your worth at the chosen restaurant. You are asking for something from something to help you with what’s inside. That’s backward. You need to deal with what’s inside, and that’s… done with…