Gentlemen, as a symbol of personality charm, are not only reflected in external wear and behavior, but also a manifestation of internal cultivation and character. To be a real gentleman, you need to start from the following aspects:

How to become an elegant gentleman

Issue #222: subway mosquitoes + good opinions

Untangling the “male loneliness epidemic”

How academics use Medium to share research and ideas easily, connect with non-academic readers, run courses, and more

An introduction to academic writing on Medium

It’s like any other riding lesson — only with disembodied entities.

The day I went horse-riding with angels

How the memories of my non-biological grandad taught me to embrace a blended family

The Family I Chose: Lessons in Love from a Time That No Longer Exists

Do a quick search for ‘raw milk and lactose intolerance’ on social media, and you’ll find thousands of posts claiming unpasteurized milk is…

I’m a Public Health Scientist. Here’s What Research Really Shows About Raw Milk.

Issue #220: friends v. fans + the value of bad ideas

Why a banana sold for $6.2 million

Issue #219: why books flop, surrounding yourself with freedom, and the mechanics of inefficiency

“A world divided into writes and write-nots is more dangerous than it sounds”

Bumble Disaster Leads to Real Life Meet Cute

Panic Attacks, Prague, and Packing Light

Issue #216: podcasting is video now, design ethics, and standing out

The two-word trick to small talk: I’m curious

Mental health, money, and heartbreak, all in one Brooklyn weekend.

Broke and broken hearted: 48 hours of single parenting in Brooklyn

To the Adams and Steves, the Avas and Eves, and everyone else— a toast for resilience!

Growing Up Queer in Nigeria

He/She/They/Me

How I am navigating the overwhelming weight of new fatherhood

My Silent Battles as a New Dad

A journey of pregnancy and childbirth of a first time mother

The Conversation I Never Had With My Body

Confronting identity, patriotism, and purpose

9/11, the Navy, and the Neighborhood

Harry Potter, pancakes, and the journey to becoming a blended family

Learning to Share a Life with Teenagers Who Aren’t Mine

The thing I’d been personally dreading about November, besides the obvious, the election, was a tooth extraction. Nearly eighteen years…

Wanting

This is a blog post aimed at people who want to do important work or make meaningful contributions to work, but feel they aren’t that smart…

How to do things if you’re not that smart and don’t have any talent

Visiting my child in the psych ward over the holidays

Under the Stunning, Useless Stars

On the loveliness of distant but profound friendships

There Is No Groupchat

A powerful reflection on identity and gender, Noel shares their journey of navigating society’s gender binary and what it means to truly…

Joelle | Joey | Noel

A short story about love, deceit and gin bottles.

Mothers and High School Sweethearts.

Fact-checking the stories that define who we are

How I Learned I was Wrong about Everything

What media never shows about the Iran-Israel situation

Nightmares of War, Realities of Life

My mom, my kid, and the twelve-foot skeleton from Home Depot

To Each Their Own Eyesore

... but it helped me get through the events that did