Yesterday, the theme wrote whether to choose fashion or style. Of course, the advice given is to choose to create a personal style instead of chasing fashion. The formation of the true style is not effortless to pursue, but gradually developed.
The reason why this is because there is a law in this world, I call it "love but can't." The more pursuing and care, the more you don't get it, but hurt yourself due to too hard. This was originally used in the law of love relationships, and it is also reflected in other pursuit of life.
From the perspective of image, it was mentioned yesterday that many people in the fashion circle really had their own style until the age of 60, and also showed a set of photos of the Fashion Icon Iris APFEL. Complicated, I only picked these three words. Is it very accurate expression? No matter how complicated she is wearing, her iconic silver hair and large -frame glasses and strong red lips can be able to control clothing and jewelry stacked. And I have also seen photos when she is still young (estimated to be 50 or 60 years old). It is not as complicated as now, but it feels a bit too hard.
Iris became popular at the age of 97. After signing the model, let the world know her. I was not just attracted by her bold and high -profile wearing. The space that can be felt in the middle can be felt. When I saw these photos, her clothing and environment on her body automatically reduced to supporting actors. Her wrinkled faces, especially the eyes behind her exaggerated frame, were the focus of the whole photo. From there, I can read it. How to nourish her and make her bring a kind of determined and stable temperament. At this time, the complicated dress can be better against this temperament.
Here is especially suitable for the sentence that Duras wrote in "Lover": "When you are young, I love you more vicissitudes." Time is never a pig knife, but nourishing the soul, but nourishing the soul, Let us live better from the urgent time. Without the folds that record time, we cannot conquer the hustle and bustle of those complicated.
In this sense, why are people afraid of getting old? Why is it only the only aesthetic pursuit of youthful beauty and no wrinkles? Why not cultivate a more bottom and fundamental part -self -cultivation and living, living yourself, in this case, everything in the external service is to express our inner world.
I am not degrading young and degraded those who work hard to maintain my young state, because I am also one of them. As a member of the half hundred teams, I have a poor condition in the past few years, because I have mentioned it more than once. Since I look at my health status, I have begun to change my attitude and actively regulate myself. The supplement also recovered the original rhythm in terms of exercise, sleep, diet, etc. When traveling with a stranger this year, he thought I was in her thirties. Although I did not correct him, I still care about it. Very happy.
At the same time, I think that to maintain my young state as long as possible, it is also an attitude of actively facing life. One I appreciates this is Miss Zhang Xiaozheng. I listened to her gossip growth. Even how the media described it She was unbearable. I never heard her explain to herself, nor did she show embarrassment. Now she lives on Miss Rose over sixty years old, rich and fragrant, um, roses, rich, aromatic fragrance. The word is my description of her personal style.
And me? What kind of style do I do? What is the most difficult to recognize is yourself. When I went to Wuyuan to play this time, I asked Mi Friends how to describe my current style. She pondered for a while and said that compared with the past, I am relatively minimalist, neat and neutral. Haha, I finally lived myself into a mysterious body. This is also a kind of affirmation of my inner strength in my heart growth in the past two years!
I am very sure about the description of Miaoyou minimalist. It is very consistent with the core of the essence that I pay attention to the essence. When I wear clothes and design clothes, I also practice this principle. Minimalism may be boring, just as the LESS is Bore said by Grandma IRIS, which is a visual view; but minimalist marshal does not mean monotonous. After all, many minimalistism advocates less is more. It may be less to use design elements, which reflects the characteristics of the wearer's own, so the talents I wear are the key. I just mentioned that I saw the space of space in the minimalist. People have experience, experience, and qualifications.
I do n’t recommend that young people pursue a minimalist style, but to explore my favorite style with curiosity, wear more tests, this world is wonderful, and you should try more when you are young. Like love, relax yourself, and contact many pursuits, instead of holding a heart that must have a result (it is very important to protect your boundaries. This is different from the style of dressing. You can know that I know what I said. What are you?) To truly perceive your heart. At the same time, marriage is to help us improve ourselves. There will be a lot of conflicts and running -in with each other. This is different from dressing. It is easy to replace the clothes that are not suitable. Marriage is worth taking seriously before marriage!
All in all, what I want to say is that the style is a gift with time, so it is easy and patient. Every day is a new starting point. From dressing and dressing, feel your feelings, and the feedback from the outside world, and perceive your psychological state to satisfy the people around you. Expressing yourself is dressed; if it is the latter, pay more attention to what kind of items you wear, the most thing you can "combine body and mind", to analyze what characteristics this item has, and at the same time tap more in line with the same attributes as yourself The items and the possibility of wearing can help us better form our own dress style and hold the mentality of playing. This will become a way to nourish ourselves every day!
The development of style is not achieved overnight. At the same time, the simplest way to wear a strong personal dress style is repeated, just like Jobs. All press conferences wearing black high -necked T -shirts, blue jeans, and he These black turtleneck T -shirts come from the ISSEY MIYAKE three houses. Jobs is also known as a uniform -style dressing method, and the top rich man who uses this way of dressing is Mark Zuckerberg.
Of course, the two mentioned, because they found their own mission, and dressed as a time -consuming thing, unwilling to waste this time, so the uniform dressing can also play a personal style Function is just a bit of BORE.
For most people, dressing is worthwhile, because it is closely related to our life password and it is worthy of our repeated attempts. Don't limit ourselves, a heart of openness is very important. The more determined we know ourselves, we live our style itself. I think this is the highest state. No matter what we wear (of course, of course (of course Living in this portion, I knew what items should I start with my wardrobe) served them for this style, just like my grandmother Iris, and I did n’t dress up so complicated in daily life, but we still think that Iris style Essence
Personal point of view, only for reference. May we all become ourselves better and develop style, I will accompany you with you!