I didn't expect that I was going to wear a bra, because I "needed" to do so.
In the years I have developed, if you want, I am called a late plant. This title always brings a negative meaning to girls who have been separated from other box office. These girls have checked the expectations of society for a person, that is, 9-14 years old. The separate box I was put in is frustrating, especially when my peers are in middle school, and even people who live with me to make remarks. I grew up in a family, and women walked away in the lobby wearing underwear. We said nothing because "this is only a girl in the house." However, this statement has also become my right thing. Of course, I noticed that my sister and mother extended meat and organization from their chests, but until I reached the age of 11, I never thought about how important this attribute was.
Once I went to middle school, I couldn't help but notice those who wearing various bras. This is because it is a trend to show off the belt by pulling the shirt sleeve or wearing the top of the top of you. At first, I was surprised by the details of the bra (or it was really just a closed homosexual). But then I started to realize:
"My God, I'm flat!"
Of course, this is not my first idea. On the contrary, what is occasionally said to me, to some extent, staring at my thoughts in a certain way, just addicted to the statement in the girl's dressing room. I often change the booth in the bathroom to avoid the shame that the external source brings me to me. Although these sources have disappeared (after persuading my mother to buy me a training bra), my interior is still fixed in my breasts that don't look like the breasts of other girls. If I run around in the gym to do the required circle, my chest will not move or bounce. At present, the only logical thing is to avoid thinking, so I accept my development in that era. I believe that at a critical moment in my adults, I have taught myself to avoid instead of accepting anything. I will accept comments on my body, but avoid facing them at the same time, because I let myself believe that those thoughts that turn into phrases. I have talked about the stigma of society and accepted. I marked myself as flat, because it was instilled by society to me. A wanderer who was put in a separate box was notified until separately.
"Until further notification" finally reached the arms. When this happens, I don't know what will happen. They just appeared ... natural. I have hoped that there is a great real aware that others will notice it. Of course, I have gentleness and pain, but there seems to be nothing to change. My mother, the only enthusiastic person, took half of my Saturday to take me shopping. This is very frightening, because the entire part of Dillard's nearby specifically introduced women, next to the underwear. I despise the idea of walking around to find the copper pipe and browse this section with others. Although no one has considered a lot of ideas, I still want to avoid eye communication, to be honest, avoid any connection with anyone (especially men). However, this is not completely deflected, because I need to measure my pure facts with exact size. Correctly corresponding to the size of my body. Quantum, a woman's cold hands, slowly passing the time to find the ideal bra of the cup at that time. The result is worth a while.
I feel great. When you finally put on a bra and in the discussion of your breasts, who doesn't feel some? As a cup, I don't know the reasons for the complaint. I am honored to be part of the box established by society for women. A few years later, and different types of copper pipes, I can really be included in these dialogues, or someone tells me.
"The bra is so uncomfortable!"
"I can't wait to take it off when I can't go home!"
Since I became a proud C cup, these remarks have been effective. Although I will refer to such comments all day, I still like to be part of a society that appreciates breast women. If they do not show any worthy of discussion when they go to high school, then you will be a wanderer for the rest of your life. When asked where to take out the bra, I experienced a certain verification in the girl's dressing room. What happened to my young self -dreaming experience happened. For a reason, if I did not develop enough, they would not say anything. Another reason is that my bra is worth talking about. The details tracked around the cup are well placed together. Whenever I look up on my head, I can stand out. I remember I had a dark blue balcony bra . I was obsessed with the way it gave me, that is, my chest sat perfectly in my chest. The natural outline of the display, especially in the correct light of the room, gave me great confidence. I think we are included with other braes wearing bra, but soon after I want to be excluded.
I grew up, and my breasts continued ... also growing. In my life, I started to have the same bras and satisfied with the results. However, this is when I sometimes want to go to the sternum or breasts. Most of my reasoning, body deformity and confusion of sex. Some people may face one of the common events before they reach an agreement with their true identity and the people they want. I will wear a large shirt, although I do not necessarily need a large shirt or a sports bra. After some important information was found in comfortable materials, the idea of exercise bras was eventually polluted. I can no longer win my own victory: I am very happy, but now I want to reduce the size because they are troubled me. I also noticed that during this time, the unnecessary gaze would cause me to fold my arms around my chest carefully, hoping to cover and disperse the abnormal eyes. This confuses me, because I hope people notice my chest size not long ago, and now I hope people don't pay attention to me at all. I want to get rid of social eyes and hope to be provided more than my body. This prompted me to discover myself in order to understand more women than their bodies.
I have to admit that I have also participated in social attention. Although it may not be obvious for me at the time, in my development, I also compared myself with the woman I encountered while seeking verification in my subconscious to show that I was also a woman. Therefore, I began to reflect and understand why it was under such a great pressure on women in a way that could be accepted by the world. In this case, your breasts cannot be small, but you dare not have huge breasts. You are either considered to be an object to be checked, or you are degrading words such as sluts or prostitutes. It's hard to want you to want people to see you while trying to be your life. Let yourself be your own way and accept this to create a stronger balance between yourself, and then bring you out of the social box. This is a way to achieve the goal, although you still have the characteristics of generations given to women in such a young woman without knowing it.
So far, I did wear a bra. But this is the difference between it. I don't think I always wear one. Yes, they are uncomfortable, especially when your chest continues when he is in his 20s. Women still despise the idea of wearing a bra, but wearing bras. In fact, 90 % of women complain about this continuous problem, whether it is because the bras are wrong or because they are like me, they are annoying. There may be several reasons that may cause this continuous problem. It may be the method of making bra, weight gain or weight loss. For those who are willing to take their chests, due to the beauty contest of the American lady, this is a certain movement since the late 1960s . This prompted the manufacturer to re -consider the design of the bra to obey the standards they want when women want to wear copper pipes. However, as of recently, the "Z generation" has an ideal standard, that is, not wearing a bra is about your emotional and psychological statements, and it is also a sign of liberation from the popular beliefs around the world. Regardless of the rebellion, a considerable number of women not only want to be the size of the breast. The size of the chest should not be equal to the respect that should be in society.
I remember when I started to develop in high school, my friends and I were talking about, you guess, bra. She proposed how to reduce the pain caused by breast size. She even said that I should be lucky, I don't have to go through another attribute of a fantasy woman. Then I don't understand what she meant. Now, I fully understand all her controversy. My friend not only refers to her physical pain that she has to bear so much weight on her chest, but sometimes it causes her back pain or shortness of breath. She also pointed out that girls were put in a cycle in a world box that I thought of being interested in gaze.
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