In Buffett's investment philosophy, he has a famous saying: " The first core of the family is always the economy rather than feelings ." Under the first hearing of this sentence, it may make people feel a little indifferent, as if the warmth in the family and affection in the family In the face of money, it became insignificant. However, when we think deeply and combined with the details of actual life, we will find that this sentence is not the value of depreciation of feelings, but emphasizes the importance of economic stability for family happiness . At the same time, we are reminding us that While pursuing the prosperity of the family, the emotional bond between family members cannot be ignored.

Imagine that a family is like a boat sailing in the vast ocean. The economy is the hull of this ship, providing the whole family with a place where the wind and rain and rain, and ensure that we can move forward steadily in the storms of life. The emotion is the sails on the boat. It provides us with the motivation to move forward, so that we are full of hope and longing on the journey of life. Without the support of the hull, no matter how large the sail is, it will not be able to sail away; and without the leadership of San, it is difficult to find the correct direction without sailing. Therefore, the balance of harmony of the family requires the common support of economic and emotion.

In a family, economic stability is the foundation . This not only means having enough wealth to deal with the expenses of daily life, but also means that family members must work together to lay a solid foundation for the future of the family. For example, parents work hard to provide children with a good educational environment; children work hard to prepare for future career development. This common effort and effort will not only make the family's economic situation better and better, but also make the relationship between family members closer.

However, only economic stability is not enough, and emotional connection is equally important . Imagine that if a boat is sailing at sea, the crew on the boat is politically politically and does not trust each other, then even if the ship is strong, it is difficult to resist the invasion of the wind and waves. Similarly, if family members lack emotional connections and trust, even if the family's economic situation is good, it is difficult to feel true happiness and satisfaction.

Therefore, we need to find a way to make the economy and feelings a harmonious balance in the family. This requires us to take some specific actions.

First, communication is the key to establishing economic and emotional balance . Family members should communicate frequently to understand each other's needs and expectations. In terms of economy, we can develop a family financial plan together to clarify everyone's responsibilities and roles. This can not only ensure the stability of the family, but also make everyone feel that they have contributed to the prosperity of the family. In terms of emotions, we can often share each other's ideas and feelings to enhance understanding and trust between each other. This communication can not only make the relationship between family members closer, but also help us better cope with the challenges and difficulties in life.

Secondly, formulating common financial goals is also an important means to maintain economic and emotional balance. These goals can be short -term, such as buying a new car or decorating house; it can also be long -term, such as saving the children's education funds or preparing for retirement life. In the process of formulating these goals, we need to fully consider the opinions and needs of each family member to ensure that these goals are recognized and willing to work hard. This can not only enhance the cohesion and centripetal force between family members, but also allow us to see the future development direction of the family more clearly.

In addition, distribution of family responsibilities is also an important part of maintaining economic and emotional balance. Each family member should assume certain family responsibilities according to their own abilities and interests. This can not only reduce the burden on some family members, but also make everyone feel that they have contributed to the harmony of the family. At the same time, we also need to learn to be grateful and appreciated. Thanks to the contribution of family members to the family, and appreciate their advantages and achievements. This gratitude and appreciation can not only enhance the trust and respect between family members, but also allow us to cherish the feelings between each other.

Let's talk about the importance of creating common experience . Regularly arrange some family activities, such as travel, dinner or exercise, etc., allowing family members to spend some good times together. These experiences can not only deepen our relationship between us, but also allow us to better understand each other's interests and hobbies. These common experiences will become our valuable memories, so that we will walk together more firmly during the journey of life.

In the family, although we must work together for economic stability, we must also encourage each family member to maintain a certain economic independence . This is like on a big boat, each crew has its own set of life -saving equipment. When families face economic difficulties, these "life -saving equipment" can play a key role and reduce the burden on the entire family.

For example, children can earn pocket money by doing part -time or participating in entrepreneurial activities, which can not only cultivate their economic independence and sense of responsibility, but also allow them to cherish their parents' hard work. Parents should also set up a "small vault" for themselves to respond to possible emergencies or realize their personal dreams. Such economic independence can not only make the family more stable, but also make family members more respect and understand each other.

In family, we must learn to be grateful and appreciated . Thank you for everything for us to appreciate their advantages and achievements. This kind of gratitude and appreciation is like litting a bright light on the boat to illuminate the road of our movement.

We can often express their gratitude to our family, such as "Thank you" or send a small gift. At the same time, we must also learn to appreciate the advantages and achievements of our families, and give them affirmation and encouragement. This positive feedback not only allows family members to feel warm and happy, but also enhance their motivation for their families.

In the process of sailing, we will encounter various storms and challenges. At this time, we need to flexibly adjust our strategies and plans to adapt to the changing environment. Similarly, in the family, we also need to flexibly adjust the balance of economic and emotional balance according to the changes in family conditions.

For example, when the family's economic situation is not good, we can temporarily reduce some unnecessary expenses while strengthening the emotional connection between family members; when there is contradiction between family members, we can adopt some positive ways to resolve contradictions. Such as frank communication, seeking third -party help, etc. This flexible adjustment ability can not only make the family more stable and happy, but also make us more calm and confident in our journey of life.

In family, we must create more common experiences . These experiences not only make the relationship between family members closer, but also allow us to feel the warmth and happiness of home in common memories.

We can participate in some outdoor activities, travel or watching movies and other activities together to spend some good times together. These experiences not only make us better understand each other's interests and hobbies, but also allow us to move forward in common goals and dreams.

In the family, we must maintain an open and inclusive mentality . Respect the opinions and choices of each family member, and give them enough space and freedom. At the same time, we must also learn to accept the shortcomings and deficiencies of family members, and use tolerance and understanding to resolve contradictions and conflicts.

This openness and tolerance mentality can not only make the family atmosphere more harmonious and harmonious, but also make us more mature and confident in our journey of life.

This is exactly:

Harmony in the family, the two -way dependency,

Economic feelings jointly build a base.

Communication and understanding Tongzhou Ji,

Happiness and well -being.