Yesterday, a video of a 70 -year -old man on the Internet "educated" his wife on the balcony. In the video, the old man forced his wife to hide on the corner of the balcony with a broom stick, and then yelled, and his mouth was unclean. From time to time, he also danced to threaten his wife.

Netizens have expressed their sympathy -this woman has been suffering from domestic violence all her life, and traditional women are really suffering! In fact, some traditional concepts that have been circulating for thousands of years are a bunch of garbage (for example, the husband is the wife, and the woman is a man of a man. ) But these garbage has been deeply rooted in the subconscious of countless men.

The short video platform also recommended another video based on my perception, the rolling oil hot canda case, which is a storytelling film that tells many major criminal cases- "Dangerous People" series.

This story probably tells: The hostess is a virtuous mother and wife. In order to raise her daughter, she assumes a family heavy responsibility and has become a street hawker. But her husband is a useless man, and when he has no money, he asked his wife and children to gamble and gamble. When he was rich, he disliked the heroine as a yellow -faced woman, often scolding her, even hitting her, and looking for Primary Three outside. Husband's long -term insults and domestic violence have stimulated the heroine and have moderate mental illness.

In order to alleviate her condition, her daughter lied to her and said, "Dad will not leave after returning home." The heroine believes that it is true and ready to celebrate. But the truth was revealed. After the husband came back, he frankly said that he did not love the family, nor did he like the heroine who was crazy. He just wanted to get money to play. The hostess was hit by a huge blow. Looking at the fried oil pan, she suddenly had a terrible idea -poured the hot oil into her husband. The man did not realize the danger, and was still urging the female master to cook quickly. Don't delay him out.

The hostess collapsed completely and poured the hot oil to her husband. At the same time, in order to prevent her husband from resisting and retaliated, when her husband was scalded and moaning in pain, she held her husband's neck with a cloth strip and killed her beloved person.

According to me, the heroine was forced by her husband! In terms of the whole thing, her husband had half of the responsibility, but the heroine was also wrong -she was too loyal and honest, obeyed her husband, and destroyed her life.

With her ability to survive, she can definitely raise her daughter alone and live a good life. However, she was reluctant to escape from this ruined marriage. She also had fantasies about her husband's return to the family and changed her. As a result, she madly, and made extreme moves to destroy her life. Therefore, she was wrong with her husband's high expectations, fantasizing to break the mirror, and fantasize the mud to support the wall.

The husband in the story is like a lot of men in reality -being favored by the preference: they indulge in the silent dedication of their wives and children, treat themselves as emperors at home, and of course enjoy the family's dedication, and even trample on their wives and their wives and Children's dignity and bottom line. They overestimated human nature, lacking a sense of crisis, and ruined the entire home.

From the above story, my daughter and wife got a discovery -the man in the family is like a big child, and it should not be too harsh or doted for them.

In my house, there are also such big children. Although they are kind, they are impatient and changeable. As soon as he encountered uncomfortable things, he sent his temper to his wife. This big child is my father.

He is a very filial son. During the five years when Grandpa was sick and bed, he gave up his work and concentrated on accompanying and taking care of his life. At the same time, he is a son -in -law with a low emotional quotient and a tendon. Previously, when his grandfather was alive, he often accompanied, but once he quarreled with his grandfather, he would never swallow his voice. The identity of the other party.

As Grandpa and grandfather died, I got married, and my father's role changed from juniors to elders, from son -in -law to old -fashioned people, but his mind became more and more immature. Perhaps people are in their old age, the most afraid of being old and death. The most anticipated is the children's surround and enjoy the joy of heaven.

Usually, my father was afraid and fierce to me, because he especially wanted me and my husband to care more about him and give him the most intimate care.

What happened a few days ago exposed his "naughty" side ...

On May 8th, his electric vehicle was issued by the traffic police for 50 yuan for illegal driving. According to the prompt, he needs to pay a fine with WeChat in the applet. However, the ticket has been reviewed, and the prerequisite for his fines is that the ticket has been reviewed, so he has always waited.

Until a few days ago, the ticket was approved. Seeing the news of the applet, he was anxious because the conventional operation was that the fine must be paid immediately after the ticket was generated. The ticket has been for more than 49 days, and he was worried that he would pay a lot of late funds.

That morning, because his mother delayed reimbursement of 200 yuan for natural gas costs, he lost his temper and scolded his mother like the late grandmother, saying that she was slow. Then he handed over his phone to let me solve the fine.

My grandmother was very important in my heart. She gave me a dream, watched my marriage, and politely asked me to burn her clothes for her. Dad is now looking for me, but he is rude and does not respect my grandmother, so I will not let him succeed easily.

"Can I lie in bed?" I tried his attitude.

"It's outrageous! Is it so lazy?!" He roared.

"What can't be? When my mother asked me to help me, things can be solved in bed, she follows me! You will only bully kind and honest people, and every time she speaks with her mother, she laughs at her grandmother. Action, cowardly personality! I am not bullying, you are asking me, you're welcome! "I took the opportunity to help my mother and my grandmother out of this breath.

After he heard it, he held the fire back and paced back and forth between the bedroom and the living room, and was anxious to get the success of the payment from me.

I took his mobile phone to find the deduction entrance, but I didn't find it. I wanted to find the official customer service to help.

"Did you fasten it? Did you do it?"

"I'm looking for customer service."

"You just don't understand! Return the phone back!" He took the phone back and fell out of the door, planning to find a neighbor to help.

My face was aggressive, things developed too fast, and I hadn't had time to accept it yet.

In the evening, he returned home. As soon as he came back, he kept saying that I was a white -eyed wolf, no conscience, and did not repay his breeding. "In the future, I will not talk to your husband, even if you take me to get off the restaurant, travel, travel, travel, , I won't go! "

"What do he want to do? It is difficult to serve than babies. Babies only have physiological needs, but my father is much more complicated!" I didn't care about my father and quietly asked my mother.

"The fine should not be successful. Your dad wants to let Awei (my husband) help and ask Awei to stand up." Mom explained.

I called my husband, but my husband was still on the way home.

"Hey, I just got off work, what's the matter?"

"My dad, let you come over to help him deduct the fine."

"It's raining, I'm still on the way back."

"Don't worry, find a place to avoid the rain first, pay attention to safety!" If I know the situation of my husband, I can't continue to force him to appear.

I let my dad wait a little, and promise my husband to come over tomorrow.

"You are not attentive to me, don't ask you anymore, I solve it myself!" After dinner, my father went out with the umbrella and the garbage thrown.

"A Wei is still avoiding the rain, do you just care about yourself?"

"Where is he, let me send him an umbrella." He turned the umbrella to me and changed the tone.

I didn't get angry, and when my dad paid attention, he reminded him not to "ejected the piano". Dad is getting old. If he picks up his husband, it will be more complicated on the road.

After listening to my reminder, he went out of the door, and continued to be stubborn in his mouth.

The next day, her husband came to help his father and proposed that he personally went to the traffic violation handling department to solve the problem. He accepted the suggestion and hurried out according to the address given by the husband.

"Things are simple, I can solve it alone. The staff said that there is no fine. This ticket is only used as a registered vehicle information ... A Wei, go out for dinner at night, I invite me." After he returned, he brought the credit for solving the problem. Get it on ourselves, but afraid that we "remember", so they changed their appearance and invited her husband to go out for dinner.

Within 24 hours, I was in the state of being fickled with my father, which was very exciting! Dad is a small child. I hope that when my husband is old, don't like him, I don't want to be a private nanny and mentor of my husband for a lifetime!