1. The power of love and the reflection of education

In the vast ocean of education, we often hear the gentle call of "right or wrong in front of love". It is like a clear stream, which is out of the educational soil that is rigid because of excessive tangles of rules and right or wrong. Love, as the purest and most powerful force in human emotions, should become the soul and core of education. However, in today's fast -paced and high -pressure social environment, education seems to gradually deviate from the track of love, and instead pursues external measurement standards such as scores and rankings.

We can't help but ask, when the balance of education is inclined to right or wrong, does the children's mind get the nourishment they deserve? Does their emotions and needs have received enough attention? The answer is often worrying. Therefore, it is necessary for us to re -examine the nature of education and let love return to the center of the stage of education.

2. Self -examination: Recall the desire of childhood

When discussing how parents let their children take the road of education in the name of love, the first thing parents have to do are self -examination. May wish to calm down, close your eyes, and let your thoughts cross the innocent childhood. At that time, what kind of parents are we most eager to have?

Perhaps you will think of the mother who always listens patiently to your mind. Her tender eyes make you feel unconditional acceptance and understanding; maybe, you will miss the father who encourages and supports when you fall. The solid arms let you learn bravery and persistence. What these memory fragments contain our desire for ideal parents -eager to be understood, supported, encouraged, and accompanied.

This desire is not individual, and many celebrities have also shared their longing for their ideal parents in their childhood in public. For example, Steve Jobs, the founder of Apple, mentioned in an interview that what he longed for his childhood was that his parents could truly understand his interests and dreams, rather than pay attention to his academic performance. It was this desire for understanding that drove him to continuously pursue innovation and breakthroughs in adulthood, and eventually achieved the legend of the science and technology industry.

Third, the ideal parent in the child's heart

The result of self -examination is not difficult to find that becoming an ideal parent in the child's heart is not out of reach. The key is whether they are willing to let go of their parents' shelf and feel the child's world with a childlike heart; whether they are willing to listen to their children's voice and understand their needs; whether they are willing to extend their help when they need it to give them the most solid support.

Become such a parent, we need to have a few key elements:

1. Listening and understanding

As the examples of Jobs shown, the children are most eager to be understood. Therefore, as a parent, you should learn to listen to your children's voices and understand their thoughts and feelings. When your child talks, don't rush to interrupt or give suggestions, but give them enough space and time to express themselves. By listening and understanding, a bridge connecting the soul can be established to let the children feel the care and support of their parents.

2. Support and encouragement

In the process of children's growth, it will inevitably encounter setbacks and difficulties. At this time, the support and encouragement of parents are particularly important. We should be the strongest backing of children, giving them confidence and courage when they encounter challenges. At the same time, we must also learn to let children try and explore the unknown world, so that they will grow up in failure and success. Just like the Harry Potter written by Rowling, after experiencing countless challenges and tests, he eventually grew into a brave and wise wizard.

3. Example role

Parents are the first teacher of the child, and words and deeds will have a profound impact on their children. Therefore, parents should always pay attention to whether their words and deeds meet moral norms and social requirements. By showing the correct values ​​and behavioral specifications to the children, guide them to form a good morality and habit.

4. Common growth

What is important is that parents grow together with their children. In this rapid change, parents also need to continue to learn and improve to adapt to new environments and challenges. Exploring the unknown world with children, sharing each other's growth experience, mutual learning and inspiration will be a very valuable experience. Such a parent -child relationship can not only deepen the emotional connection between each other, but also allow us to gain more happiness and satisfaction in the process of common growth.

Fourth, love and wisdom in practice

Putting the above -mentioned concepts into practice is not to happen overnight, but a long -lasting battle that needs patience, carefulness and wisdom. On the field of education, every parent is a cultivator, and the seeds of hope to sow hope with love and wisdom are looking forward to the most brilliant flowers.

1. Create a warm family atmosphere

Family is the cradle of children's growth. A family atmosphere full of love and warmth is the cornerstone of children's mental health. Parents can start with small things in daily life, such as regular family gatherings to share each other's happiness and troubles; jointly participate in housework, cultivate children's sense of responsibility and team spirit; and set up "family time" Emotional connections between each other. Such a family atmosphere can make children feel loved and needed, so that they face life more confident and optimistic.

2. Respect the child's personality and differences

Each child is a unique individual, and they have their own personality characteristics, hobbies and development rhythms. As a parent, you should respect the children's personality and differences, and avoid measuring and evaluating the child with unified standards. This means that parents should pay attention to their children's interests and encourage them to pursue their dreams. At the same time, they must also understand and accept their children's shortcomings and defects, and guide them to gradually improve and improve them with a tolerance attitude. As Einstein said, "Everyone is a genius, but if you use the ability to climb trees to judge a fish, it will think that he is a fool throughout his life ."

3. Cultivate children's independence and autonomy

In the education of love, parents must also pay attention to cultivating their independence and autonomy, give their children appropriate freedom space, and let them learn to make decisions, assume responsibilities, and face consequences. For example, you can encourage children to participate in the family decision -making process and let them feel that their opinions are valued. At the same time, they can also let the children complete some tasks that they can do independently, such as sorting out their rooms and arranging their learning plans. Through these practices, children will gradually learn to think independently, make independent decisions and grow into responsible people.

4. Stimulate children's creativity and imagination

Creativity and imagination are an important driving force for children's future development. In the education of love, parents should pay attention to stimulating their children's creativity and imagination, and encourage them to be brave to try new things and put forward new ideas. This can be implemented in various ways, such as encouraging children to read science fiction and watching popular science programs to broaden their horizons; guide children to participate in artistic creation and hand -made activities to exercise their hands -on ability; conduct scientific experiments with children, explore natural mysteries, etc. Curiosity and curiosity. Through these activities, children will gradually cultivate rich imagination and creativity, laying a solid foundation for future learning and life.

Fifth, the education of love beyond the realm of right or wrong

When parents integrate love into every aspect of education, education is no longer just the teaching and skills of knowledge, but a guidance of the nourishment and growth of the soul. In the education of love, children have learned how to reflect on themselves, how to understand others, how to take responsibility, and how to face setbacks and failures. They become more confident, optimistic, tough and compassionate.

The important thing is that the education of love allows us to surpass the simple and wrong judgment. Under the light of love, parents learned to look at the child's behavior and choice with a more tolerant and understanding attitude. Parents are no longer entangled in their children's grades and rankings, but pay more attention to their inner world and growth process. We believe that every child has its own unique value and potential. As long as we discover and cultivate with our hearts, they can all become the talents of society.

This is exactly:

Airun Xintian plant wisdom root,

Educate the soul of education according to the aptitude.

Mo is right or wrong as the ruler,

Deyi Shuangxin is true.