In the eyes of many people, hardship is working hard, hardship is to stay up late is not hard. In fact, this is not a real difficulty, a person can really endure if they focus time and energy into what they want to do for their goals, dare to throw away all the things that make themselves comfortable and happy, then work hard to work to the end in life. If not proactive challenges, they will have to be moved to suffer great failures.
If not proactively enduring hardships, it will be moved to suffer the difficulties of life. Hearting hard is also a step that has created success, those who can endure the four arduous types below will have a life that is increasingly not worried about poverty.
1. Suffering when thinking to break awareness
Warren Buffet often has the habit of spending time not doing anything just to sit and think, train thinking ability and ponder is the first step of change. When pondering yourself, you will assess your level of satisfaction with education, work and current life. When you are aware of your dissatisfaction level beyond the certain threshold naturally desire to change will be born. This is the motivation to find a way to bring yourself to a new level, such as reading more books, fostering a new hobby, learning more foreign languages, taking new certificates, changing new jobs, etc.
Thinking is actually a process of making a choice, it is important not to be afraid to choose, not afraid to change when standing in front of the wall you will find it very high, but when you are on the wall you see it is not difficult. The following story will make us ponder. Hoa has just graduated from her university in the first -class city to work from 10 to 12 million VND per month. She worked hard every day but when she deducted the costs, she only had very little savings left. Life made Hoa unable to see the future, so she was very worried about how to improve her working skills. How to have a foothold in big cities?
After careful consideration of the flower to realize the busy work repeated but not bringing high value, when she understood the current situation, she began to have a clearer plan for the future. With her constant hard work, she received a graduate program at a key university, after graduating from her master's degree to work at a large company with a salary of more than 20 million VND. There are many people in life who fall into repetitive work, thought that it is very hard but not very effective. Only when we are good at thinking and synthesizing can we get rid of fixed thoughts and avoid meaningless efforts. Do not suffer suffering will suffer hardships, long -term people who do not use maintenance will easily lose themselves in chaos and inner friction.
2. Discipline suffering to avoid trivial
In the world, there is never luck from the sky, behind the success you see is perseverance day and day by day that people around are trying. There are so many people who admire the physique and appearance of others, admire their success and fame. But after knowing the self -management of yourself and almost brutal behind, I quickly retreated and then lived out of how to let go. If you are free to do something, do that, later discover, when you discipline you to be free.
When a person lacks self -discipline, what he does will be influenced by the inertia of habits and temporary inspiration, or not, they are also shaken by others' thoughts, almost impossible to do what they really want. The philosopher Ken lives very disciplined, he once shared how your life is decided by you. He built himself a schedule of working and resting specifically and seriously. For many years he acted as a machine with high accuracy and never changed, one morning from 9 to 12:45 was the time he spent on writing and he would never delay. This ascetic self -awareness has helped him successfully complete and the famous work. After a busy working day, Ken won exactly 3:30 pm out of the way out for a walk, at the same time the church bell rang.
Perhaps in the eyes of many people's self -discipline, Ken is too austere, even a type of self -torture, but this extremely disciplined life has helped him achieve great efficiency at work. Ken said the discipline of self -discipline made us different, it made us live in a higher level and bring a free life, only when one person suffered from self -consciousness, he could avoid his triviality.
3. The suffering of loneliness will accumulate strength
There is a principle like this next to the high mountain, and the plain is flat, all around it will be flat. Life is the same, if you want to surpass this field, you must sacrifice somewhere other things. So those who succeed in their career must sacrifice many things. Shark Nguyen Xuan Phu Chairman of the Board of Directors Sunhouse affirmed to us in a recent exchange that simply explained Shark Phu, "Each person has the same 24 -hour period, but the usage is different.
For example, if a consumer style is all an hour for his family, a sports play, a learning language, everything they will have outstanding outstanding but on the contrary, if they want to play well. They will have to focus for 10 hours on a day, which means losing the lice for other things. "
Even if Sunhouse had a certain place on the market, he continued to be wrapped by other aspects of the work, with a period of week when he went to receive guests who did not go home to eat with his family. When I was busy with work early, my empty house lacked this person. At that time, he himself clearly felt that there was something lonely.
After graduating, Buffet became a private share investor and spent most of his time alone in the office. In addition to his work, there was almost no social activity, on this issue, Mrs. Susan's wife commented that "Buffet is a genius and geniuses are lonely and independent". After becoming famous Buffet, giving up life in the center of New York City bustling and returning to the remote Omaha town. The biggest advantage of living in Omaha is that no one will visit often.
Buffet taught on time every day and spent a lot of time reading all kinds of news, financial statements and books, abandoning regular entertainment games, enduring loneliness and maintaining a lifelong learning is the secret of getting rich buffet. There is a very good saying "lonely makes people learn how to think rationally and make people more independent. The strong people often experience the feeling of loneliness". There are too many people in this world who want to become strong and rich but most people end in failure because they cannot endure loneliness.
4. The suffering of hurt to make the heart more powerful
Tieu Truong is a salesman who often falls into a state of suspense when meeting customers. Facing the strange customers he did not dare to look directly at their faces and even said that the corn was unsuccessful, and his hand and his shirt were sweaty. Of course, the result of the failure. Later, Tieu Truong consulted his colleagues about sales tips, he realized that the biggest difference between himself and his colleagues was that when communicating with customers, he became shy, self -deprecating, fear of harming self -esteem.
It turned out that being too concerned about the face and not expressing his requirements well was the cause of the failure of Tieu Truong. After finding out the key to Tieu Truong, he told himself that when faced with the customer, there was nothing to be ashamed of, even if he failed, I would not lose anything. Thanks to this secret, Tieu Truong has become the best salesman in the company, promoted to the sales manager.
People really become strong not when they protect their self -esteem, but when they get rid of self -respect at the right time. The worse the people, the stronger their self -esteem. The truly mature person dares to let go of a real life, they understand that the true dignity of people comes from a resilient and consistent heart.