Recently, I saw a video showing a man entering the subway, only to be pushed off the train by a man in black just as the doors were closing. The man who was pushed off was immediately furious and began to fight back by prying open the subway doors.

In response to the man's counterattack, netizens cheered him on. This kind of instant revenge is something many people enjoy and can easily resonate with.

The subway is a public place, yet some people take the opportunity to commit crimes, while many choose to endure, which only encourages the other party's arrogance. I have seen many bad guys while taking the subway. When you are behaving properly on the subway, a man with ill intentions might take the chance to strike your arm hard and then walk away as if nothing happened. I have encountered this several times, and at that time, I let the person go due to the urgency of getting to work. But once, when I wasn't in a hurry, I encountered a man who deliberately struck another person's arm hard as he was exiting the subway, then casually slipped away.

The subway security guard not far away also saw this, but he turned his back, adopting a "better not get involved" attitude. The man did not walk far after exiting the subway but stood nearby. I also got off the subway and was willing to take another train just to settle this matter.

I walked up to that man and unceremoniously kicked him in the backside. He probably didn't expect me to do that, and he became furious, rushing forward to fight me. Of course, I didn't hold back either, and I retaliated even more fiercely. After just two or three rounds, he was defeated. Then he retreated about three meters away and started to talk back. Just then, the next subway arrived, and as the doors opened, I leisurely boarded the train and left. Throughout this, the subway security guard did not intervene; perhaps he thought the man deserved to be beaten. I guess the next time he thinks about causing trouble, he should think twice.

If you have the ability to fight back against these bad guys, I still suggest retaliating on the spot, not only to protect your own rights but also to teach them how to behave, preventing more innocent people from being harmed.

However, I have also seen some shameless men groping women on the subway. At that time, I didn't notice this behavior; it was when the subway doors opened that a man pulled up a girl's butt, causing her to almost fall. The girl, angry, turned around to shake off the harassment. However, she did not report it but left the subway with her head down, looking dejected.

That man was indeed excessive. If the subway doors hadn't opened, we might not have discovered that he had inserted his fingers into the girl's private area. After the doors opened, he even tried to lift her suddenly. It was truly outrageous.

However, the girl did not boldly fight back, and the man quickly fled the scene after his actions were exposed. Although many people saw it, no one took further action.

If that girl had bravely fought back, I would have undoubtedly helped her, kicking that bad guy away and assisting the relevant personnel in subduing him. At that time, considering the girl left in a hurry and lost her witnesses, I thought that if I acted rashly, the outcome might be worse.

This incident happened at the Kecun Station in Guangzhou. Although several years have passed, I still remember it vividly. Whenever I recall this incident, I reflect on whether I should act heroically if I encounter a similar situation again.

In today's society, many people adopt a "better not get involved" attitude. So, if that girl had shown resistance at the time, it might have only gathered a crowd of onlookers. More importantly, if the incident were reported, she might also feel a psychological burden, thinking she would be embarrassed to face others. Although she might have such concerns, I still believe that as a person of justice, one should act heroically when witnessing such phenomena.

We cannot overly criticize the victims, demanding that they be brave. We should reflect on whether we can bravely stand up when we see such behavior. I remember a similar incident that happened on the subway in Shenzhen, where a girl not only recorded a video but also slapped the man on the spot, ultimately sending him to the police station. However, one thing to note is that the people around did not get involved, which might be due to the girl having the ability to confront that man.

This subway incident is not the first and will certainly not be the last. Such criminal behavior may occur every day at different subway stations. These lewd men, some of whom are strong and fierce-looking, commit crimes without restraint every day. Because many people choose to endure and those around them choose to ignore, it leads to their rampant behavior.

Of course, similar incidents can happen not only at subway stations but also at bus stops. Twenty years ago, when I was in Dalian, I witnessed a petite girl walking towards me while a big man was also walking towards her. In the brief moment when their bodies brushed past each other, the man grabbed the girl's butt and walked away without looking back. The girl only angrily glanced back for a second but did not dare to pursue the bad guy and quickly left. I, who witnessed the whole incident, didn't know what to do. Should I shout out and act heroically? At that time, I was new to Dalian and didn't dare to provoke the local bad guys.

When I arrived in Guangzhou, I also encountered similar incidents. I found that almost no one spoke up; they chose to selectively ignore it. As long as the other party did not pursue it, they wouldn't even waste time being onlookers.

Now, with a fractured hand, I still have not had the steel plate removed. If I encounter similar incidents again, it would be difficult for me to act heroically on the spot. However, there are exceptions; if it were a family member, I would definitely fight to the death with the other party, making them pay a huge price.

However, I still suggest acting within one's capabilities or being wise in action. When I was a child, I witnessed a strong man robbing an elderly person's money at the Lishan Market in Shizhu. At that time, although the elderly person and their daughter were shouting for help to catch the thief, no one helped. Many people chose to step aside to avoid getting hurt, allowing the criminal to escape onto the road and get into a van with his accomplices.

At that time, my mother and I happened to be in the middle of the road. I was considering whether to take action to help or to trip the bad guy unexpectedly, but my mother suddenly pulled me down into the ditch by the side of the road. Then she started scolding me, asking if I was a fool or an idiot. Didn't I know to get out of the way? If I hadn't pulled you, would you have just stood there?

However, my mother's seemingly kind action cast a shadow over my young heart. I never responded to my mother throughout; I did not agree with her teachings or her actions, but what could I do?

Later, my mother spread the label of me being unresponsive and foolish, further dampening my impulse to act heroically. Later, my mother divorced my father and chose my younger brother; she always thought I was the more foolish one. What she didn't know was that her actions back then had a huge impact on me.